| Why Men Cheat |
 | Discover the secrets to creating a magical relationship, even if you feel like you have failed a hundred times before. To us, portray the issue of relationship and affective problems on the basis that men are invariably cheating, and eve as one feminist once said to us 'potential rapists' is rather absurd. We believe that seeing the issue of living together and the survival of marriages families in the long run as only a blame game may only work, in the best of cases, to just see one side of the problem. The issue is mathematically simple: for each man that cheats his wife or girlfriend, there is another woman that is cheating her spouse or boyfriend too somewhere else, except in the case that the cheater is a homosexual. However, statistically speaking, gays and lesbians represent about 10% of the total sexually-active population, so for the remaining 90% the former rule applies and it is logically inconsistent to assume that heterosexual men are more or less liable to infidelity than heterosexual women. What is important at this point is to ask ourselves what is failing here; maybe it is not that men or women are more or less guilty than the other gender. When you are in a group, be it an expedition to the Amazon river, or a suburban family, you should always keep in mind that other people should be important for you too. When we live in society, what others feel matters, be them heterosexual, homosexual, children, grown up or old, and looking for selfish explanations for our problems is not only of rather bad taste: it is coward. The true nature of each individual can be seen whenever that person is confronted with a situation that he or she dislikes; when things are running smoothly, it is easy to be friends and loving partners. But the question is what we do with dissent, and how we deal with others. Living together is a form of adventure too; do all you can to improve it! |
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